LOVING AND LETTING GO
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to
find the person we love we fail to recognize and
appreciate the people who loves us.
We miss out so many beautiful things and simply
because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our
own selfish concerns.
Go for the man of deeds and
not for the man of words for you will find
rewarding happiness not with the man you love
but the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those who a re capable of
loving from a disatnce, far enough to allow the
other person to grow, but never too far to feel
the love deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to
stop loving, it only means that you allow that
person to find his own happiness without expecti
ng him to come back.
Letting go is not just setting other person free,
but it is also setting yourself free from al
bitterness, hatred and anger that you keep it in
your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength
and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to
dishearten you, but rather let you grow with
wisdom in bearing it.
You may found peace in just loving someone from
a distance not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, for this can sustain life but can
never can give enough room for us to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories
of the past but real peace and happiness come
only with open acceptance of what reality of
today.
You dont have to forget someone you love.
What you need to learn is how to accept the
verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry
for yourserlf.
BElieve me, you would be better off giving that
dedication and love to someone more deserving.
Dont let your heart run your life, be sensible
and let your mind speak for itself.
Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today,
it means that someone better is coming tomorrow.
Happy 
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